Are Friendships Trickier in Midlife Than at Any Other Stage of Life?

Together We Pause Episode 12: "Are Friendships Trickier in Midlife Than at Any Other Stage of Life?"

Episode Summary:
In this episode, Faye and Helen explore the complexities of friendships in midlife. They reflect on how relationships evolve, how COVID changed how we connect, and the importance of finding friends who align with our values. The hosts discuss navigating old friendships and cultivating new ones in midlife.

Episode Highlights:

• Celebrity Facelifts and Aging Gracefully:
  Faye and Helen discuss Anne Hathaway and Kris Jenner’s facelifts, reflecting on aging, societal pressures, and how we age gracefully.
• Friendships and the Impact of COVID:
  The hosts talk about how COVID shifted friendships, with some becoming stronger and others fading as interests and life stages changed.
• The Challenge of Maintaining Friendships in Midlife:
  Faye and Helen discuss how midlife brings shifts in priorities and values, which can make friendships feel trickier. They emphasise the importance of common ground.
• New Friendships and Setting Boundaries:
  Helen shares how she’s cultivating new friendships while setting healthy boundaries and finding friends who align with her values.
• Friendships Across Generations:
  The hosts explore friendships with people of different ages, and how those relationships can offer new perspectives and enrich life.
• The Power of Frank Conversations:
  Faye and Helen reflect on their evolving friendship, emphasizing the importance of clear, honest communication for healthy relationships.

Key Takeaways:

• Friendships Evolve: Friendships shift over time, with some fading and others growing. It’s important to nurture those that positively serve your life.
• Making New Friends: Midlife is a great time to make new connections, but it requires effort and aligning with shared values.
• Boundaries Matter: Set boundaries to maintain healthy friendships, especially when life gets busy.
• Embrace Differences: Friendships across generations bring fresh perspectives and growth.
• The Importance of Frankness: Honest, open communication is key to strong friendships.

Resources Mentioned:

• Waitlist for Together We Pause Community: Join the waitlist for an exciting new community launching in the Autumn. Visit togetherwepause.co.uk.