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Together We Pause
Are We Listening to the Warning Signs from Our Bodies?
Together We Pause Episode 10: "Are We Listening to the Warning Signs from Our Bodies?"
Episode Summary:
In this episode, Faye and Helen reflect on their recent holidays, how they disconnected from the hustle, and the lessons they learned about listening to their bodies. They discuss the importance of recognising physical and emotional signs and the power of taking a pause. They also talk about their personal experiences with stress, burnout, and the steps they've taken to manage their well-being.
Episode Highlights:
- Holiday Reflections:
Helen shares her amazing trip to Japan, where she experienced deep relaxation and cultural richness, while Faye talks about her time in the Maldives, an island paradise that gave her the chance to disconnect, recharge, and embrace the art of doing nothing. Both hosts explore how travel gave them the space to reflect and reset.
- The Power of the Pause:
Helen opens up about dealing with an eye issue and the realisation that her body was signaling the need for a break. The conversation turns to the importance of listening to those bodily signals instead of pushing through. The hosts share their stories of moments when they ignored physical signs of burnout and the consequences.
- The Mind-Body Connection:
They dive into how emotions can manifest physically—such as stress showing up as physical ailments like bloating or fatigue—and discuss how addressing these signs can be key to overall wellness. Faye and Helen also touch on the need for a balance between holistic remedies and medical treatments, sharing their personal approaches to both.
- Experiencing Panic Attacks:
The hosts talk about their past experiences with panic attacks and the profound impact they had on their mental health. They discuss how anxiety and overwhelm can sometimes take control, but recognizing it early and seeking support is key.
- Practical Tips for Managing Stress:
Both Faye and Helen emphasize the importance of asking for help, setting boundaries, and experimenting with different approaches to improve mental and physical health. Helen shares a helpful tip for bloating that has worked wonders for her, and Faye discusses how stepping back and rethinking priorities can lead to more balance and peace.
Key Takeaways:
- Listen to Your Body: Your body is constantly giving you signals. Don't ignore those physical and emotional signs; they are messages that shouldn't be brushed off.
- Give Yourself Permission to Pause: Taking breaks and setting boundaries is not just okay, it's necessary for your well-being.
- Ask for Help: Whether it's from family, friends, or professionals, don't hesitate to reach out when you need support.
- Experiment with Self-Care: Try different methods of managing stress, from holistic remedies to more traditional medical approaches, and find what works for you.
- Boundaries Are Essential: Creating boundaries helps protect your energy and prioritize your mental and physical health.
Next Week's Episode:
Next week, Faye and Helen will be discussing the topic of shrinking bandwidth—how our mental and physical energy can deplete over time, and the practical ways they’re navigating that in their own lives. If you're feeling like your bandwidth is shrinking, don’t miss this one!
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